I'll say it for you, Mr. - ' 我错了就错了, but everything I do is for you, every mistake I make is forgivable......' Correct? Is that what you have always thought? -minime(minime); 2006.6.23 13:32 (#3044210)
I was just being sarcastic. Do you really think you are right all the time? Unbelievable... -minime(minime); 2006.6.23 13:36 (#3044218)
How can you think in this way? Actually you are. -flight2009(选择明天); 2006.6.23 13:38 (#3044226)
All, I really think this guy is done. Nobody can save him anymore. Please, let's stop wasting all of these time. All he can do is to talk non-sense. -minime(minime); 2006.6.23 13:44 (#3044250)
I almost laughed after reading a lot of postings. Before I leave the site, I have to ask '选择明天', how old are you this year? -minime(minime); 2006.6.23 13:47 (#3044258)
whatever, it minds you? -flight2009(选择明天); 2006.6.23 13:52 (#3044276)
No, it doesn't matter to me. However, you made me feel like I have been talking to a 12-year-old. I haven't had the chasing-tail type of conversation for many many years. Thanks for the entertainment. -minime(minime); 2006.6.23 13:56 (#3044291)
who cares your points -flight2009(选择明天); 2006.6.23 14:00 (#3044301)
Me too. It's so difficult to prevent myself from laughing while at work. I don't want to lose job for this guy. -bona(bona); 2006.6.23 14:02 (#3044311)
I think 爱 and 讲理 are dependent on each other. Just becuase you are in love doesn't mean you have the excuse of 不讲理. Occasional 不讲理 is OK, but consistent 不讲理 is NOT OK. -asker(answer); 2006.6.23 08:19 (#3043366)
So that we should at least make some efforts to realize this ideal, that is, 家是讲爱的地方, and 讲理的地方. -asker(answer); 2006.6.23 08:20 (#3043368)
I read " Don't Sweat the Small Stuff and it's All Small Stuff: and it's all small stuff" as well for staying in good relationship with my colleagues and friends. -asker(answer); 2006.6.23 08:16 (#3043363)
Hey, brother, just a reminder that the Downtown Toronto Jazz Festival starts today. Do not forget to invite her to enjoy some outdoor or indoor Jazz sensation. :) Hang in there, and good luck. :) -asker(answer); 2006.6.23 08:26 (#3043373)
Thanks a lot, asker! -frozenheart(冰); 2006.6.23 18:16 (#3045108)
Nicholas Sparks
http://www.chapters.indigo.ca/books/item/books-978044661586/0446615862/The+Wedding?ref=Search+Books%3a+'Nicholas+Sparks' Page Link -frozenheart(冰); 2006.6.23 18:18 (#3045111)
Thank you very much. -montec007(montec); 2006.6.23 19:14 (#3045176)
I have a dream! Free at last! Free at last! Thanks God almighty! I am free at last! -gnits(byebyeCanada); 2006.6.22 21:21 (#3042816)
Please do not judge him. He is not a good man. But he is not that bad. We should not always blame him. If their marriage is not good, both wife and husband have problems. Let them calm down and make decision. -sunflower1(sunflower1); 2006.6.22 19:37 (#3042615)
That's fine. I don't mind those guys. -flight2009(选择明天); 2006.6.22 19:43 (#3042633)
I really don't like you. You always pretend to be a perfect man! I read lot your post. All what you suggested is nonsense. -sunflower1(sunflower1); 2006.6.22 12:37 (#3041337)
You are for the good purpose, as I can see, but your wording is mean -wind_cloud(风逝云栖); 2006.6.22 14:54 (#3041713)
orthodontics did a good example for you, and you don't understand her. why don't you learn the way from orthodontics to deal with your child' mom, actually you are so reasonless. -crystalhouse(旺旺狗); 2006.6.22 15:48 (#3041873)
The key point is that you must make sure your parter worth of your love or not, and if he/she wants to improve him/herself or not. Sometime, shit is shit. It could not become a piece of cake. -sunflower1(sunflower1); 2006.6.22 13:27 (#3041487)
make sure before marriage, otherwise you are the one to blame for all the shit. -mssg(Wild_Killer); 2006.6.22 13:32 (#3041496)
I agrre with '什么是爱'. If she doesn't care, why do you have to put your ideas on her? Who says your ideas are always correct? She is an adult, not your child, and she can take care of herself. -minime(minime); 2006.6.22 16:41 (#3042106)
Look at you....Just say 'sorry' when others tell you they don't like the way you talk to them. Have some manner, for god sake... -minime(minime); 2006.6.22 16:44 (#3042114)
No wonder your wife has had enough of you. I would be the same if I were her, you self-centerred, rigid guy. Do you know how to apologize when you are wrong? -minime(minime); 2006.6.22 16:46 (#3042124)
That is not the point. That has nothing to do with you if she is a 大姐 or not. She told you she didn't like it. A normal response will be 'sorry, I didn't mean to offend you.' Got it????? -minime(minime); 2006.6.22 16:51 (#3042143)
Also, what you said here showed exactly how mean of a person you could be. -minime(minime); 2006.6.22 16:52 (#3042150)
Do you really need any effort? With a university degree, and even got some A but not A+ in COLLEGE, you had better go and buy some tofu and suicide. -hoholalahaha(); 2006.6.22 12:14 (#3041279)
让你上个高中没准更牛，A+上面是什么来者？本不想打击好多辛辛苦苦读书的同胞，你来XB俺就不客气了。这里的 college 都是什么人？当地的同学你问问他们30+1有几个能不用计算器算出来的？别提这个了啊 -maplew2008(call me at 911); 2006.6.22 15:36 (#3041836)
u r sweet..............I bet. :-) -babyface(★又来了，又来了。★); 2006.6.21 12:25 (#3039200)
I just wondered if you are sure that you can bring up a baby by yourself?Maybe you guys just need to seperate for a while, then make a decision. -spagetti(hot hot hot); 2006.6.21 12:26 (#3039204)
do you have brother? -cristina(cristina); 2006.6.22 10:52 (#3041104)
I have two, does it matter? -flight2009(选择明天); 2006.6.22 11:20 (#3041148)
I'm sorry, I mean to ask "Min gong Me Fan", I just think if he is so good, he must already has wife, so his brother.... -cristina(cristina); 2006.6.22 12:35 (#3041334)
yes, I think LZ's personality has problems. 责备多于感激/赞扬 and 你就吃亏在讲理上，夫妻间是没有理好讲的. Both points are good for family. -bugkiller(Driver Coding); 2006.6.22 15:28 (#3041801)
我早就看出那男的不是东西了，离了，别怕，孩子由法院判。TNND，没离婚就开始争昏了，啥玩意儿。需要扁他尽管说话 -maplew2008(call me at 911); 2006.6.22 15:26 (#3041793)
keep the marriage intact. please him as much as you could for your own survival, be patient and be ready for opportunities for now. You have a chance to kick his ass someday. -fca1ca(fcalca); 2006.6.20 04:29 (#3036697)
If I please him, he would look me down. He never mind what I do for him such as I cooked his favorate food today, he also had too much complaining to me. He always blame me. -duzikang(独自扛); 2006.6.20 04:34 (#3036698)
I re-read your words and like your advice, but I can not help to against his abuse. He can find any excuse for hurting me. -duzikang(独自扛); 2006.6.20 04:41 (#3036699)
It's good to vent out online. But It's hard to reach any solution. Maybe call 211 and get some professional support later. -magnolia(magnolia); 2006.6.20 10:48 (#3037032)
Oh, so sweet but sad, too...... -michellechole(Michelle Chloe); 2006.6.15 10:30 (#3030436)
Very touching. I'm going to lose 10 lbs to honour the great love, and the people who still believe the great love. Hope all the peole still believing love will find their another half. -cristina(cristina); 2006.6.15 10:42 (#3030461)
After you give him $500, how much you ask from him if you don't have money anymore?
When you guys go out for diner/movie, who will pay?
I'm trying to make you feel better, I know sb has to pay the rent to the guy. -cristina(cristina); 2006.6.14 23:52 (#3030049)
financially abuse, rosemary, right on, ...... you are on the right track!!!, consult with
asker with answer. ...legal stuff, women shelter, child abuse.... be advantage to you
I have studied a lot -fca1ca(fcalca); 2006.6.15 03:31 (#3030198)
If you dont' love him any more, try legal aid. You will possibly get some money from ths marriage. Otherwise, it is better to talk to him and try to work out the issues between you. -stepbystep(stepbystep); 2006.6.15 09:33 (#3030318)
Actually I doubt if a remarried Chinese husband will give her that much? Sigh...life is not easy...but we need to enjoy it. -stepbystep(stepbystep); 2006.6.15 09:31 (#3030314)
poor you, very disturbing! i am just wondering if you have signed prenuptial agreement before you re marry? in either cases, family income (from you and him) belongs to you and him, you are entitled for half of total. -dchen0408(Relax); 2006.6.15 10:48 (#3030475)
if you have never signed any agreement, you may be entitled for some part of the home equity, my suggestion: you must find a family lawyer for a fee and you will get much back, and don't give up! -dchen0408(Relax); 2006.6.15 10:54 (#3030482)
Because of the short history of the marriage, I don't think she will be entitled for much of the home equity. Even support is questionable. -ruoer(乡下人); 2006.6.15 11:00 (#3030490)
many of those chinese females married to those non-chinese origin lack of knowledge of family laws, the laws protect the weakers! (financially) -dchen0408(Relax); 2006.6.15 11:04 (#3030497)
Totally agree, compared to some woman have to pay rent, half of the bill, half expense for grocery or dinning out etc. , you r pretty good. Hope you feel better. -cristina(cristina); 2006.6.15 14:40 (#3031028)
What do you think "把老公和孩子生生分了." now? What is the right thing you will do if you have a another opportunity with the same situation? -school(鱼群); 2006.6.14 10:44 (#3028444)
Wish you happy! -primo(Primo); 2006.6.14 10:27 (#3028410)
What kind of joint account you have? Shouldn't it be both of you can take money out of the account without the signature / permission from the other? Why "跟他要钱买女人用的小东西"? -ruoer(乡下人); 2006.6.14 10:39 (#3028431)
Yeah, this is what I am wondering as well. Kind of weird. -asker(answer); 2006.6.14 10:44 (#3028441)
Agree. You were correct by saying '如果你觉得婚姻有了问题, 未必一气之下嫁了另一个就一定过得好', but that has nothing to do with your husband's race. -minime(minime); 2006.6.15 09:33 (#3030323)
Thank YOU! Don't know you r GG or MM, if you were GG, you r so outstanding, I'm pretty sure you already had wonderful wife. If you were MM, you r very understanding person. -cristina(cristina); 2006.6.16 15:05 (#3032970)
hen. I think most women is good at 冷言冷语. However, man will not take advantage of it.
shame on you for such suggestion. -iwantcar(流浪的EnjoyStudying); 2006.6.14 23:59 (#3030063)
...and some ladies only focus on "here and now", and have no patience waiting for their men's "dong shan zai qi".... -barefoot(Barefooter); 2006.6.14 13:10 (#3028828)
Actually, all of them had problems when they were in China, not after they came to Canada. They just chose to resolve it in Canada. The title doesn't make any sense. -minime(minime); 2006.6.15 09:46 (#3030349)
