看到有显摆的，有气愤不过的，有故作老成的，我向这里比较通行的一个心平气和讨论的原则是： "Nobody is defeated until he starts blaming somebody else." [#4152114@0 -ROLIA.NET 相约加拿大网上社区 之 枫下论坛 & 枫下部落, 枫下论坛主坛 ]
看到有显摆的，有气愤不过的，有故作老成的，我向这里比较通行的一个心平气和讨论的原则是： "Nobody is defeated until he starts blaming somebody else."
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2007.12.31 00:23
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Don't Aggravate.
We have the power to make any problem better or worse. We do this when we react positively or negatively. The normal reaction would be to feel threatened by the problem. Threatened people become angry people. Fearful people reflect hatred. Hatred and anger only aggravate the problem. They are not positive reactions. They will not help solve the problem.
So you are overweight? Don't hate yourself for eating so much. That will not help you one bit.
Unemployed? Don't hate your company for laying you off. Likewise, don't hate your country for not coming through with a job offer, or your community for having an I-don't-care attitude about the unemployed people.
Nobody is defeated until he starts blaming somebody else.
If you've got a problem, don't add to it. Don't make your problem worse by aggravating it with self-pity, jealousy, cynicism, hatred, anger, or lack of positive faith in the future.